Greyhaunt wrote:Hey, hang in there and don't forget that we're here to lend shoulders and cheerful words if needed. Been where you are and its no fun, but friends are just a mouse click away
Thank you. I'm sure you'll be hearing from me, probably more than you'd want to.
Mlatch221 wrote:I'm sorry to hear about your Grandma, hun. Just remember that a lot of us have been right where you are and can offer support if you need it.
Thank you. My uncle from Hawaii flew in for a week to give some of us a "break" from the constant care giving. But he leaves in the morning. It was really nice to have him there, especially when school started. I wouldn't have been able to leave my grandma, and would have missed the first day of classes.
Iwa_Hoshi wrote:My thoughts are with you. do take care of yourself too. Been though such a stressful situation myself.
I'm trying, but my grandma is such a big part of me, that it's hard.
DollyKim wrote:Lost my grandma a while back, big hugs.
I'm sorry. I know how hard it is now. And my grandma isn't dead yet.
Mary Kathryn wrote:(((Dark Angel))) I'll be thinking about you.
Thank you
maywong wrote:I sorry to hear about your grandmother. We are here if you need us.
I know you are
You guys are like my internet family!
SetsunaKou wrote::hug: Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother, Dark Angel-san!!! :hugs:
All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God bless you!
Setsuna
Thank you. My family is so stressed out, or in denial. Which stresses the rest of us out even more because they won't take things seriously.
richila wrote:I will keep you and your grandmother in my prayers. You are under a lot of stress, remember to take JOY breaks when you can. Dollieh cuddling is very good for that. {{Hug}} Valerie
Thank you, I did take a break and it was nice. My brother and I went to see Resident Evil 3D in the theater. It was nice to get out for an hour.
Kirahfaye wrote:*hugs*
My step dad is not doing well, so I understand. Please know you can come here to laugh, cry and generally just let loose.
I'm sorry about your father.
*hugs back*
K2! wrote:Okay Angel, Pandora, Morgan, and the rest of you. Take good care of your dolliehmom. Cheer her up when she's down. Remind her about the fun side of your world. And bring her back here if she gets lonely.
They have been! I've been doing a lot of hugging on them lately. And maybe it's not healthy, but I talk to them.
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My grandma has a deteriorating spine, and fibrosis of the lungs. So breathing and moving hurt her. It's awful to watch her try to breathe. And then she talks about death, and reminisces. And doesn't want to be alone, at all. So someone is always with her, but she doesn't feel safe with only grandpa, he is emotionally burnt-out. So he doesn't think straight anymore... just today he was sitting on grandma's oxygen cord and would not move, even when people told him he was cutting off her air. Because he was on the phone...