Teh Suckz Thread

[catshem]

Glad to be moving but hate the process.

Moving is a super pain. I'm hoping to get rid of some furniture when we move again. Like our couch which broke 3 times and I'm sure is about to break AGAIN.

I hate not being able to foster a cat. Our shelter really needs to foster care and....I...CAN'T >_<

[knittnkitten]

I keep having a mystery rash about once a month and I can't figure out what causes it because I am doing a differnt thing in a differnt place every time it happens.

[Sixoclock]

Seriously.... You have no idea the amount of stuff we've just put outside for anyone or sold just because we didn't want to move it. Hell, I just sold my treadmill for $100 today, lol. Gonna probably leave my couch right where it is too. >_> Just tossed our King Size bed frame out too - which was kinda cool cause it lifted up and you could store sheets and stuff in it... Buuuut.. It got scratched up bringing it downstairs and we were running out of space. The list goes on, haha.

Glad to be moving but hate the process.

Moving is a super pain. I'm hoping to get rid of some furniture when we move again. Like our couch which broke 3 times and I'm sure is about to break AGAIN.

I hate not being able to foster a cat. Our shelter really needs to foster care and....I...CAN'T >_<

[Dirili]

I keep having a mystery rash about once a month and I can't figure out what causes it because I am doing a differnt thing in a differnt place every time it happens.

I've had a rash too, but it's been there for about a week.... a 6 inch spot on the right side of my chest. And 2 days ago I started getting a rash around my left knee too. What the heck? I hope they go away soon.

[OkamiKodomo]

Ok I need to vent a bit.

Last year, I almost left my fiance and moved back to New York because I was sick of dealing with the roommates that HE kept inviting over to live with us. While only one of them was actually a bad person, none have them have pulled their weight, and have essentially freeloaded off of us. I finally gave him an ultimatum, and showed up with a moving van to back it up. Either they go, or I go. Long story short, he got his sh!t together, kicked them out, and we went to couples therapy to get our relationship put back together.

Now, one of those same roommates (not the bad one, at least) is homeless, AGAIN, because he can't hold a job, and the people he's been staying with off and on finally said to get out. So where does he go? You guessed it. My place. I feel like a heartless tool for wanting to say GTFO, but at the same time, he DOES have a place to go. He could move back in with his father. He just doesn't have a way to get there. I am to the point that I will either drive him there myself, (provided he washes his friggin pits first... I am not having Badger stink of body odor) or pay for his damn bus ticket.

I am going to be working almost 2 weeks straight, without a day off. If I'm lucky, I MIGHT get one, IF the shift supervisor under me can get her act together. I don't want to have to worry about coming home to "guests" in my house, or waking up to them on my couch. Enough is enough. I don't like seeing people fall on hard times, but I can't save the world one homeless pot-head at a time. My dolls have to be confined to my studio, and can't even keep me company on my desk, because a) he's afraid of them, and b) they like to smoke in the house, no matter HOW MANY TIMES I SAY NO.

I am beyond frustrated, and really feeling like my rules are being ignored in my own house. And my fiance won't even back me up. He sides with his friends.

[Evelien]

Holy crap, I can totally see what that's doing with you. That sucks so much I can't even... Talk about it with your boyfriend before that guy comes and lives with you again.

[OkamiKodomo]

I know I should talk to him, and the grown-up person would do so, but the childish, immature part of me wants to go 'if you don't know better by now, why am I even bothering?' I almost LEFT him because of this crap. Because I have some degree of OCD, and I hate it when I feel like the small portion of the world that is "mine" is going out of my control. I love my job, but I have enough stress from that. I don't want to come home to more stress, and the stench of someone who can't be bothered to bathe regularly. If I can manage to keep myself from smelling like Hobo, when I work constantly, then he can too, when he doesn't do anything but sit around and smoke weed all day. I've given him access to our spare bathroom shower, given him soap, shampoo, even offered to buy him a stick of deodorant if he doesn't have any. He just... can't be bothered.

[Evelien]

Not wanting someone to invade your personal space on a daily basis does not require OCD if you ask me, that's completely normal human behaviour and I totally understand how it stresses you out

[victoriavictrix]

I know I should talk to him, and the grown-up person would do so, but the childish, immature part of me wants to go 'if you don't know better by now, why am I even bothering?' I almost LEFT him because of this crap. Because I have some degree of OCD, and I hate it when I feel like the small portion of the world that is "mine" is going out of my control. I love my job, but I have enough stress from that. I don't want to come home to more stress, and the stench of someone who can't be bothered to bathe regularly. If I can manage to keep myself from smelling like Hobo, when I work constantly, then he can too, when he doesn't do anything but sit around and smoke weed all day. I've given him access to our spare bathroom shower, given him soap, shampoo, even offered to buy him a stick of deodorant if he doesn't have any. He just... can't be bothered.

His stink is going to stink up your clothing and furniture you know.

So let me ask you a question here. Just what are you getting out of this relationship?

I divorced my first husband when I realized I could hire a maid and an "escort" for half what it cost to keep the bum. His social companionship was nothing I couldn't get from a friend.

[OkamiKodomo]

It's not my fiance that's the stinky one... though his hygiene could use some work too. It's the fact that he sides with his friends constantly, over me. It feels petty and clingy, to think that way, but I can't help how I feel. I've been asking myself what I'm getting out of this for a while now. I can't give myself a straight answer.

I'm an introvert. I gather my energy and well being from solitude and quiet, and personal creative endeavors. Social interaction drains me to the point of non-function. When I come home from work, I want to be left alone. To have to smell weed smoke, and BO and deal with someone who has very little respect for personal boundaries is the last thing I want, but my fiance doesn't seem to understand that. He's very outgoing and social, but I am not. We touched on this whole thing in our therapy sessions, but it doesn't seem to have been something that stuck.