Teh Suckz Thread

[SugarCorpse]

=\ i used to bring home my stray friends and still do if they need it, but they were all clean and took care of them selves. Actually they were all teenagers with jobs... they just needed to get away from abusive parents....

my mom hated sharing our space but let it happen because they had no one to care about what happened to them. She actually didnt mind them after awhile though cause they all kept the house clean for my mom though and even bought there own food and chipped in for bills. She actually missed a few of them after they left.

If this guy can't respect your home or rules then he doesn't deserve to be there. 15-20 year olds can pull their own weight and actually make a good lasting impression on my mom. So much so that if they ever needed to stay with us again she'd welcome them. if he can't do that he should leave immediately.

[OkamiKodomo]

He's 20, and his father is a really good guy. His mother is no longer with us, unfortunately. It's not a matter of abusive. His girlfriend is a sweetheart, but she is just coming from a tough situation herself, and living with her parents, who have forbidden her boyfriends from living with them. Understandable, but just another factor of frustration.

My thing is, we've been taking in "stray cats" practically since we moved down here. We've had roommates come and go regularly, to the point that I made the half-joking remark that we should just put in a revolving door and call our home a hotel. I'm fed up with it, and have been for quite some time.

Ugh I'm just venting and cranky, from the heat and the stress, and frustration. I'm sorry everyone. x_x

[SugarCorpse]

He's 20, and his father is a really good guy. His mother is no longer with us, unfortunately. It's not a matter of abusive. His girlfriend is a sweetheart, but she is just coming from a tough situation herself, and living with her parents, who have forbidden her boyfriends from living with them. Understandable, but just another factor of frustration.

My thing is, we've been taking in "stray cats" practically since we moved down here. We've had roommates come and go regularly, to the point that I made the half-joking remark that we should just put in a revolving door and call our home a hotel. I'm fed up with it, and have been for quite some time.

Ugh I'm just venting and cranky, from the heat and the stress, and frustration. I'm sorry everyone. x_x

hm well maybe you could try to compromise, give him a month to find a place to stay or a job or something, 2 weeks is probably enough time though too lol.

[darkfairykara]

@OkamiKodomo: i'm sorry that this is happening to you. if it was me I wouldn't know what to do. I'm a bit of an intravert too plus I don't know how to deal with people when I have problems with them. I wish you the best of luck with this situation.

well time to dish my problem. I'm kinda worried about my health since 7/30/12 I've been more aware of a problem. on that day i went into the wellness center at my school to lie down since I was really nauseous and took my anti nausea medicine which make me tired. well they took my vitals and my pulse was 172. the normal range for pulse is 60-100. since then my pulse at resting has been over 100 most of the time. it's usually around 130 when I have checked it lately. on top of that I get palpitations, dizziness, and overall fatigue. I'm not anxious...I know what my panic attacks feel like. so i'm not sure why my pulse is this high. sometimes when my pulse is high I can feel my heart beating hard in my chest and all the way down my arm to my fingers. it's really worrying me. last week I had a holter monitor put on me and i'm still waiting on the results. I really am hoping they catch the problem. but for now I have to deal with my symptoms.

[Lamia of the Dark]

Lost another person at work... new girl quit this weekend.

T__T I wish we would get some reliable people hired so I could get back on a normal non-crazy schedule again.

[Evelien]

He's 20, and his father is a really good guy. His mother is no longer with us, unfortunately. It's not a matter of abusive. His girlfriend is a sweetheart, but she is just coming from a tough situation herself, and living with her parents, who have forbidden her boyfriends from living with them. Understandable, but just another factor of frustration.

My thing is, we've been taking in "stray cats" practically since we moved down here. We've had roommates come and go regularly, to the point that I made the half-joking remark that we should just put in a revolving door and call our home a hotel. I'm fed up with it, and have been for quite some time.

Ugh I'm just venting and cranky, from the heat and the stress, and frustration. I'm sorry everyone. x_x

hm well maybe you could try to compromise, give him a month to find a place to stay or a job or something, 2 weeks is probably enough time though too lol.

I would try to keep him out at all this time... it's harder to get someone out once they're in...

[Sixoclock]

I agree. I think you and your man need a talk. It's such a hard situation and man have I been there. But it basically came to me saying - hey, we went through this before and this was the outcome- don't you remember? Okay, well nothing has changed. So if this guy moves in, he'll have more than enough space, because I'm leaving.

I know that's easier said than done, because it took every ounce of me, when it was my situation. In the long run though, I was happy I stuck to my guns and did not swallow up my anger and frutration at the situation because I know that would ahve lead to me being even more miserable.

Everyone falls on hard times. Yes and it sucks... BUT - if the hard times repeatedly keep happening to you because of the same circumstances, then they aren't hard times- they are a pattern of behavior that needs to be fixed and neither you nor your fiance are going to "fix" them by allowing him to continue on as he alays has. I'm sorr if that sounds harsh, but that's just me being honest and no hurt feelings are intended. I lurves mah dollieh peeps. :3

[OkamiKodomo]

Yeah no, he's not getting two weeks to crash. I just can't take it. My man has his car back, if he really wants to give him a place to sleep, he can sleep there. As cold as it sounds.... it's just... not my problem anymore. I feel for him, I really do. He's not a bad guy. We have fun sometimes. But I can't be responsible for his lazy rear end anymore. I've tried to be subtle about it. Unfortunately, I'm about as subtle as a T-rex on roller skates, no matter how hard I try. Especially when annoyed. But even that, either they (both the freeloader, and my fiance) are outright ignoring, or are completely oblivious to.

[knittnkitten]

I have a feeling that your man likes having the company, esp if you're not too social when you come home, he might be feeling lonely.

[DollyKim]

well time to dish my problem. I'm kinda worried about my health since 7/30/12 I've been more aware of a problem. on that day i went into the wellness center at my school to lie down since I was really nauseous and took my anti nausea medicine which make me tired. well they took my vitals and my pulse was 172. the normal range for pulse is 60-100. since then my pulse at resting has been over 100 most of the time. it's usually around 130 when I have checked it lately. on top of that I get palpitations, dizziness, and overall fatigue. I'm not anxious...I know what my panic attacks feel like. so i'm not sure why my pulse is this high. sometimes when my pulse is high I can feel my heart beating hard in my chest and all the way down my arm to my fingers. it's really worrying me. last week I had a holter monitor put on me and i'm still waiting on the results. I really am hoping they catch the problem. but for now I have to deal with my symptoms.

Have your brain checked and see if it's sending mixed up signals to your body or if part of it is firing too much. There could be a short in the part of your brain and you could be having "spells". Some of it may be diet as well, caffeine and other stimulants or a form of food allergy. Peanuts used to send me in to fits, once I stopped and they were out of my system that got a lot better. Are these spells related to your lady cycle? All sorts of things to talk to your doctor about.

You can investigate a food trigger on your own. Pick one thing and take a week or two vacation from eating or drinking it but see if you can stick to your regular diet otherwise. Read labels and avoid products containing it, or that have it way down on the list.