Teh Suckz Thread

[darkfairykara]

That has got to be the most original excuse for not exercising I have ever heard in my life. LOL

haha it was a first for me.

@Darkfairykira the exorcize thing could be the "angel" who watches over you telling you that the way you're going about it might not be the healthiest way. By that I mean having a plan that a doctor or fitness person help you don't stress your body or over do it. Are there people in your neighborhood or at a local park or mall who walk? Maybe your fitness is meant to come along with new friends?

As for the never living up to family member's expectations it sells a lot of Julian Lennon albums... It sounds like they'll never give you what you want. I stopped trying to do things "right" for my smother or doing anything better in her eyes than what my sister does many years ago. I set my own goals for myself, I'm the first in my family that I know of to have a college degree, I have my own business, I make my dolls to my standards alone.

You are never alone in feeling worthless and don't let yourself suffer alone. You were put on this world for a reason and being it's in health care there are people out there who need you and will appreciate you. Don't be blind to the good ones, don't let the bad ones harden your heart.

maybe that is true. but I don't push myself too hard anymore. I love walking at night it's nice and cool. and I walk up and down our hill driveway. I like listening to music when I walk too. I drown out the world and let my imagination run free. oh and I live in a rural area. it's hard to know people, well for me it is because i'm younger and most of the people are older.

thank you for the advice. it helped my psyche.

[Lamia of the Dark]

I have never hated a doll straight out of the box before, but Freya has only been here for about 10 minutes and is already getting on my last nerve.

[catshem]

Good god, whether we call it ADHD or not, doesn't erase the fact that I have problems focusing. -_- I need someone to not gripe at me over what I'm naming my problem- as I'm only calling it ADHD because it's all I got to go on until I call the psychiatrist- and just let me vent about the fact I've been going through life with focus problems.

Mom, please, tell me again why you listened to a child about her medication? If it was helping me function, why the holy monkey hell would you take me off because I "didn't want to take pills anymore"? Ug. This is a frustrating ball of: can't focus -> but also has social anxiety -> which keeps me from calling the appropriate doctors -> which frustrates me more -> meanwhile still can't focus long enough to do what I need to -> curl into ball and hate myself because I'm neglecting the tasks I need to be doing

I had a nice private online community in which to talk about my problems, until RL friends invaded and now also read those posts. I hate dumping this on you guys because I hate the way it makes me sound >_< *flail*

[Vetinari]

:| I have never hated a doll straight out of the box before, but Freya has only been here for about 10 minutes and is already getting on my last nerve.

oh no! Well at least with the limited release you can probably re-sell her if you don't bond with her

[knittnkitten]

sometimes behavioral modification and organization training helps alot with adhd rather then medication. when I started highschool, my mom asked me if I wanted to keep taking the medication or stop for a while to see how I did. stopped for a while, seemed to do just as well without it and have never really gone back, but I've learned alot of coping mechanisms and ways of organizing myself so I can get things done. ^^

[Yanagi-sen]

Good god, whether we call it ADHD or not, doesn't erase the fact that I have problems focusing.

Kiki-chan would be a better one to answer but since I was WITH her when she was bouncing around Universal Studios like Tigger on crack... Her thyroid problem was also affecting her ability to focus, so make sure a doctor checks for thyroid issues too!

[Dirili]

Just a little check-in status update.
Sorry I haven't been around much...
A lot of things going on. Injuries, sickness, mental crap.
So I may be pretty quiet for a while.

[Lamia of the Dark]

:| I have never hated a doll straight out of the box before, but Freya has only been here for about 10 minutes and is already getting on my last nerve.

oh no! Well at least with the limited release you can probably re-sell her if you don't bond with her

Oddly enough, one of my other dolls seems to have become attached to her..... so I'm not quite ready to give up and try to sell her.

[catshem]

Good god, whether we call it ADHD or not, doesn't erase the fact that I have problems focusing.

Kiki-chan would be a better one to answer but since I was WITH her when she was bouncing around Universal Studios like Tigger on crack... Her thyroid problem was also affecting her ability to focus, so make sure a doctor checks for thyroid issues too!

I would've honestly never thought of my thyroid. Ha! I learn something new everyday.

I've tried organizational and coping methods, and they work for a short time before I fall off the track >_< At the end of the day I don't care what it is, I Just want something to fix it! I can't keep living like a cat jumping from box to box because she can't decide which box is better.

[Evelien]

Just a little check-in status update.
Sorry I haven't been around much...
A lot of things going on. Injuries, sickness, mental crap.
So I may be pretty quiet for a while.

*hugs*