Teh Suckz Thread

[Kirahfaye]

Neko Sandy, also - make sure he can't get to the money you are getting from the sales of your dolls. At some point you will have to take it our of Paypal so open up a separate bank or credit union account. Also, make sure you keep track of the dolls you've sold and how much you received in case he wants to be an ass and claim he deserves half of the money and you'll want to prove this is money you got after he told you he was leaving. Sorry to be so blunt, but you have to think of every way to protect yourself.

[Neko Sandy]

That is one of the things I am looking forward to DollyKim--no more hoarding! I'm tired of having so much stuff to deal with!

Yep, the bulk of my money from the dolls will be staying in Paypal until I get back where I am going and can get a checking account opened. Only then will I transfer it out. I am going to be taking a lot of stuff over to the half price bookstore and I hope that that will give me enough cash so that I can deal with any miscellaneous needs that my brother or mom don't cover until the account is open and the money transferred.

[OkamiKodomo]

Just stay strong Neko Sandy, and keep control of the situation. I nearly left my fiance last summer, but I became overwhelmed with Everything, and stayed. While it's not a total loss, as I got a good job, and a car, part of me regrets not leaving, especially since things are getting rocky again.

[BadCandy]

I'm working way too hard..I havent had time for my girl, or anything else..

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When I run out of steam and just can't face doing anymore, I will put something I like to watch on TV. Then tell myself, "During the next commercial break I will ____________". Then the commercials come on and I run and do as much as I can in that five minutes. It actually works pretty well. What usually ends up happening is after a few commercial breaks, I get into it, and then finish whatever I was doing.

This is what I do as well (honestly I thought I was the only one - glad I'm not!) it's how I dealt with stress a lot while I was living on my own. It's actually a great way to rest and ease your mind, especially if you put on some ridiculous junky tv.

Glad you're chugging forward little by little, NekoSandy, and slowly getting everything together. I'm sending you thoughts!

[Linteia]

I shouldn't be as shocked and insulted as I am by this, but damnit, it pissed me off. I'm taking a yoga class online and this week's lesson was on chakras, which I love and work with all the time. I was so excited to go onto the discussion forum and talk about something I'm passionate about...and then I get there and the entire forum is just flaming the lesson for its religious aspects and being non-Christian. I couldn't believe the things my classmates were saying, like it never occurred to any of them that some of their classmates might not be Christian or have other experiences. It wasn't even directed at me but it was so frustrating and hurtful.

[jemlovecraft]

@Neko Sandy and KitKat: -hugs, lots of hugs, and a hot drink and nice films- I don't really have anything to say, but that I send you both lots of love. And hugs.

My depression's in full swing again, the worst it's been since April or May... on top of that, my family's (I'm a minor and I live with my parents) financial situation is really crazy right now and it's kind of terrifying. Our car broke down so we had to replace the battery and now it needs over a thousand dollars' worth of repairs. My ferret might be incredibly sick and need vet care we can't afford. On top of that, I'm down from six to three classes this semester because my agoraphobia is unbearable.
I just want to crawl under a blanket and never come out again.

[Lamia of the Dark]

I shouldn't be as shocked and insulted as I am by this, but damnit, it pissed me off. I'm taking a yoga class online and this week's lesson was on chakras, which I love and work with all the time. I was so excited to go onto the discussion forum and talk about something I'm passionate about...and then I get there and the entire forum is just flaming the lesson for its religious aspects and being non-Christian. I couldn't believe the things my classmates were saying, like it never occurred to any of them that some of their classmates might not be Christian or have other experiences. It wasn't even directed at me but it was so frustrating and hurtful.

If there's one kind of people I would like to punch in the face, it's ones who try to shove their religious views onto other people all the time.

(I have no problem with religion in and of itself, as long as people keep their opinions to themselves.)

[Jany]

I'm with Lamia on this one!

Hugs all around to those who need/want them!
Jem, I remember that feeling ... just hang in there and never stop fighting, I know you've probably heard it a bazillion times already, but it does get better!

[DollyKim]

@jemlovecraft I've been there, I did school with an anxiety disorder and holes in my clothes and shoes, the dead car sits in the driveway, and if you find the St Patrick's Day puppies thread you'll meet my babies and Blarney who I had five incredible months with. All things must fart and you'll get past them. Everyone is here for a reason and you'll find it and make the world a better place because of it.

Heaven forbid any of us find our own paths to spiritual enlightenment. If you aren't hurting anyone else or yourself what's wrong?