So I was posting a reply in another thread, and as oftentimes happens, my brain went off on a tangent, and I started thinking about how we play with our dolls. When it all boils down to it, BJD are dolls, meant to be played with, in one way or another. If your version of playing with your doll is putting on white cotton gloves, and setting up elaborate photoshoots where every fold of fancy silk and starched lace is perfect, then you go right on ahead and more power to you. If your version of playing with your doll is toting him or her around with you everywhere you go, splashing in mud puddles, and getting twigs and dirt in your hair, that's great too.
I like to sit a doll in my lap sometimes. Having their little resin (or vinyl or ABS or whatever your little darlings are made of) selves nearby is a comfort, and makes me feel better when I'm down. I do most of their work myself, from face-up to clothing, and now venturing into the realm of mohair wigs, so seeing something beautiful that I created... it really is a good feeling. Currently, I can see five dolls sitting around me without even turning my head. If I do turn just slightly, I can see two more. If I do a 180, there are yet another two, and if I open the cabinet to my left, there are still more. My MH Casbah Clawdeen that was a gift from my girlfriend is right next to my computer monitor and my Casbah Abbey is next to her computer tower, (though they're still defaults) my RS Jun, Rune, and her AoD Rao are on top of said tower, and my DZ Mo is on a chair on top of her desk.
I enjoy making stuff for them, re-doing face-ups, and taking cell phone pictures. I also like setting up photo shoots, but I really haven't done much in the way of photostories. I plan on changing that. I have a small camera that has some nice settings, and we're getting a super macro lense for Myrretah's Canon Rebel soon, and we will be able to do light painting again, and take pictures with fiddly little details. Sometimes I'll just pose them a little, moving arms and tilting their heads. Some of them need to be touched every day.
I'll also haul them out with me to go to craft stores, or a restaurant. If I'm going on a long road trip, I like having a doll with me. I've brought a few of them to work. I've plunked resin butts in trees and on stone walls, stood them up in front of windows at the airport, and let them take up a seat of their own on an airplane.
I feel comfortable saying this here, because I really feel all of us at DS are in the hobby because dolls make us happy. That, I feel, is the critical difference between the Sanctuary, and the Big Forums. We're here because we love our dolls, not because they're a status symbol, or because we want to be part of some special club. That's why we're so accepting here. At least, that's what I think, and what I've observed from the group as a whole. Yes, there are a few people that prefer the expensive dolls, but it's because they genuinely like their sculpts better, and NOBODY here judges them for it, nor do they judge those that like the less expensive brands.
So, how do YOU enjoy playing with your dolls?