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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby Jobee » Tue Jun 05, 2012 5:22 pm

I convinced my husband to let me buy another doll by photoshopping the doll to what it would look like! There's no blue hujoo piccies out yet, so I did the PS pic to include eyes, a face-up, and a wig. A doll with no eyes or a face-up is the creepiest to him. He's so cute! Anyways, here's how the pic came out!

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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby mica » Wed Jun 06, 2012 7:54 am

I had no stuffies before I met my boy friend, He has given me so many, I have a bed full to match his!
As soon as he saw Kerryth he fell in love with her and says she is beautiful
all the time :)
Kerryth- Delilah Noir Dark and Defiant
Anakin- Goodreau Schemer
Robin- Impdoll Bobo
Willow- Hujoo Suve........Bran- Hujoo Suve
Atrus- Domuya Venturo......Miriana- Delf EL
Riven- Dollzone Yuu
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby EAB » Wed Jun 06, 2012 9:01 am

mica wrote:I had no stuffies before I met my boy friend, He has given me so many, I have a bed full to match his!
As soon as he saw Kerryth he fell in love with her and says she is beautiful
all the time :)

Now THAT is the kind of boyfriend to have.
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby Jobee » Wed Jun 06, 2012 11:35 am

EAB wrote:
mica wrote:I had no stuffies before I met my boy friend, He has given me so many, I have a bed full to match his!
As soon as he saw Kerryth he fell in love with her and says she is beautiful
all the time :)

Now THAT is the kind of boyfriend to have.
I agree, you are sooo lucky!
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby Astrid » Wed Jun 06, 2012 1:11 pm

You never know your husband may even get into it too after a while. My husband was never creeped out by my hobby and was always super supportive buying me dolls and even co-chairs the BJD convention here in California with me! I have been in this hobby since 2003-04 but it was not till a couple of years ago that he started looking at a Hujoo and liking the idea of customizing one.Now he has 2 and now is looking into a resin doll from Luts.

You can ask your husband for help with things such as when stringing or sanding to get him more comfortable with handling the dolls.
I am sure it will work out for you!
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby Evelien » Thu Jun 07, 2012 12:11 pm

My boyfriend was feeling really funny the first time I asked for a doll for my birthday (before I was into BJDs, it was a J-Doll) and he felt a bit ashamed even, but today he has changed completely... it's more than 'gotten used to', he's very supportive. He bought me my first BJD Anne and today when he found my new PukiPuki on the sofa I thought he'd freak (I'd promised I'd stop buying dolls. kinda.), but he immediately noticed it was a doll I didn't have before and he said he thought it was cute!!! :D
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby Lamia of the Dark » Fri Jun 08, 2012 9:21 am

I'm sorry, I think it's funny if someone is creeped out by a doll :D
I have so many dolls that I can't fit all their names in my signature anymore. @__@
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby arrowchild » Fri Jun 08, 2012 9:30 am

My husband jokes about my dolls being 'creepy' once in a while, but there's no actual fear/phobia attached to it. He's actually pretty darn supportive for which I'm very greatful!

BUT I also keep all of my dolls confined to my work room cabinet when I'm not playing with them. I would never display my dolls in our common space out of curtosy for him, just like I expect him to keep his hobbies in his own space and/or put away when not in use.

I have the feeling that if I had a dozen large, life like man dolls lounging around the living room and bedroom, he might be a tad more disturbed lol
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby Jobee » Fri Jun 08, 2012 10:49 am

arrowchild wrote:I have the feeling that if I had a dozen large, life like man dolls lounging around the living room and bedroom, he might be a tad more disturbed lol
That's one of my irl friends! She's the reason my hubby's afraid of letting me have too many!
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Re: How to help creeped out husbands?

Postby famedglory » Fri Jun 08, 2012 2:02 pm

The fiance saw this thread and wanted me to add that keeping them clothed around people who get creeped out by them helps a lot. WIP and naked dolls do tend to freak people out more than clothed or "completed" dolls.
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