Doll faceups & trust

[Dreamy Doll]

i'm sorry you feel that way~ at home in my relationship, i'm the submissive one~ most of the day i spend in silence~ i only write on forums because i want to talk to people and learn new things and get to know new people... but i don't want to upset anyone~ i actually love making people happy... but if i feel like everything i am, do, know, and think is being attacked, i get defensive :s i already decided i wouldn't comment on anyone's life situation/family/anything like this because i upset someone when i did and i rather don't talk about it than upset people... i won't just go along with others' opinions, but i can choose to not say anything~ and from now on, i'll try to do it in more subjects, not just life choices/issues/etc~

i don't like fights, i really don't~ and i don't want to tell my opinions to anyone if it makes people upset~ if so many people really see me as someone who's here to cause trouble and honk her own horn, then I'm obviously doing something really wrong :/ and i'm sorry it took me a while to realise that~ different people in different places react so differently... this is a new forum and i didn't have any feel of any of you, and i ended up upsetting many of you, but please believe me - i didn't mean to~

[Dreamy Doll]

Woah down there cowboy. The community here is sweet, kind, and fun. I'm what you would call one of the oldbies. I've been here since the forum started, since before this community went through (What, 3 different places now?), and I've seen MANY people come and go. I can say one thing. We keep things nice in our little Dollieh Land. If you have questions or conerns by all means ask them. I have never had a problem with questions being asked, but I would recommend settling down before you start calling people out.

Like i already said, i felt like being attacked for nothing, but if you all agree like you seem to, then obviously the fault was with me and not you :/

[Greyhaunt]

Ok, I've frigging had it.

I'm shutting down this thread NOW. Dreamy Doll - Do NOT START ANOTHER THREAD unless you learn how to play well with the members of my forum. If you don't like that, I just sent you an invitation to Den of Angels - see how long you last there where the mods have far less patience than we do here.

Let me clue you in to a very valualbe rule for a person who is new to ANY hobby or ANY type of forum. For at least the first MONTH of membership, read, learn and keep your mouth shut unless you have a good feel for the way people in the forum think, talk and behave to one another. I have fielded multiple complaints about you and you've only been here for 5 days. That is NOT a good sign.