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part of the problem with posing a Delilah Noir is that she's not built like a traditional bjd or one of the Obitsu style. Though she has elastic holding her head in it doesn't run all the way through the body to the knees/ankles elbows/wrists. Kips and sueding probably wouldn't help much based on my experience with mine. Plus in order to put either technique in the knee/elbow joints you'd have to figure out how to take them apart. So far I have been able to pull the feet off (cause I HAVE to remove that horrible pink toenail polish), but no luck with elbow or knee joints. I've read about people breaking the feet off already so I know you have to be careful with her! (the feet, btw, are not jointed, they are just shoved in on pegs).
I'm not sure if there is a lot you can do to improve her - she is fundamentally not really designed to be "played" with the way we do, but as more of a collectable to have on a shelf. Which, of course, none of us want to do with our dolls LOL. Don't know if you have one with flat feet or the high heel feet (which are the only ones mine - Dark and Defiant - came with unfortunately), but I know the high heel sort will not stand independantly
Even with her limitations though, she is still a world better than the "over the counter' fashion dolls like Moxie and Liv (yes, I've bought them so I know what I'm talking about)
I'm sure your daughter will love to have her - which one did you get?