Teh Suckz Thread

[IzabethS]

I have a sucky story now.

I recently moved out of a 2 bedroom with my girlfriend and a roommate into a one bedroom with just my girlfriend. I let the roommate take one of my cats on the condition that I could see the cat (Joyce) from time to time.

Since the move she hasn't talked to me, no matter how often I've asked her about the cat. Finally she unfriended me from FB and I'm pretty sure she's going to block me from her phone too. I never did anything to her. She screwed my girlfriend and I over multiple times while living with us (didn't have enough for rent, refused to clean any of the common areas when we all moved apart and cost us our deposit, used up all the storage space and most of the room in the apartment, etc), but now, now I'm sad. I loved that cat, but I couldn't keep her (I had her 8 years), because she couldn't get along with the kitten and I didn't want to give her back to my mom because my mom already has 7 cats and the last two years the cat was at my mom's while I lived in a dorm Joyce lived on a windowsill...

I really thought I was making a good decision letting my ex roommate take her, but now I'll never see her again. So I feel stupid and sad.

[DollyKim]

Maybe the cat will soften her heart somewhere down the road. Hopefully the cat is happy. The spiritual beings they are you can speak to your cat when ever you want, especially in your dreams.

[Siead]

Try living with them...

oh, well aware they are menaces, don't worry lol.
worst one we had, managed to short out a transformer to the barns. one krispy kritter that was.

[K2!]

I love raccoons, but I can never eat a whole one.

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[Alopecia No Hime]

My mom got into a car accident...She's okay I think. (Haven't gotten much details from my dad but I figure if they haven't taken her to a hospital she's not hurt.) I'm just...Really shaken up.

[Evelien]

Oh wow . But even if you're not taken to a hospital you can feel very very sore and perhaps have a whiplash!! I hope she's okay

[Alopecia No Hime]

I hope so too. I think she is I just really, really wish I'd know....I'm sure she'll be okay I just...Feel startled.

[Trethowan]

Cats are silly creatures and don't care what you do. They're too independent to care if you're with them or not. Dogs I can see being upset at an owner being gone. I dog-sat my uncle's German Shepherd for two years while he was in Iraq and when he came back the dog went wild with excitement upon seeing my uncle again. I got back from Japan after being gone three weeks and my cats could care less. They just walked up, looked at us, and walked off. Their little cat-brains don't process things the same way dogs do, so if the cat is with the roommate I'm certain the cat is happy. Cat has food. Cat has water. Cat has all cat wants. That's all they care about. So maybe that's a backwards way of looking at the problem.

Also, one could look at it from this angle. If the roommate wanted the cat, and is the back-stabbing type, maybe roommate is afraid you'll try to take her back after consideration and she's blocking you to block attempts at losing the cat. She's already shown herself to be selfish and unthoughtful, so this isn't unsurprising behaviour. She probably just really wants to make sure you can't get the cat back.

[Yanagi-sen]

Cats are silly creatures and don't care what you do. They're too independent to care if you're with them or not.

Sorry but I beg to differ. Aiko DEFINITELY knows if it is me or not. She is very antisocial, except for my lap. Entire year I was in Japan, she didn't jump into my mom's lap once. If I leave and someone else comes in to feed her, she'll run to the door, see that it isn't me, and disappear.

[catshem]

I have a sucky story now.

I recently moved out of a 2 bedroom with my girlfriend and a roommate into a one bedroom with just my girlfriend. I let the roommate take one of my cats on the condition that I could see the cat (Joyce) from time to time.

Since the move she hasn't talked to me, no matter how often I've asked her about the cat. Finally she unfriended me from FB and I'm pretty sure she's going to block me from her phone too. I never did anything to her. She screwed my girlfriend and I over multiple times while living with us (didn't have enough for rent, refused to clean any of the common areas when we all moved apart and cost us our deposit, used up all the storage space and most of the room in the apartment, etc), but now, now I'm sad. I loved that cat, but I couldn't keep her (I had her 8 years), because she couldn't get along with the kitten and I didn't want to give her back to my mom because my mom already has 7 cats and the last two years the cat was at my mom's while I lived in a dorm Joyce lived on a windowsill...

I really thought I was making a good decision letting my ex roommate take her, but now I'll never see her again. So I feel stupid and sad.

could...uh, could that be taken up with the cops?