Wish I could give you constructive advice...
My process of waiting for things that take a long time:
1. Before ordering spend days or weeks of research, join a forum and ask questions. (unfortunately the first forum I joined didn't give me good advice for my needs. Only found that here after I already bought several other things just for being pretty)
2. Yay! It's ordered! Woo hoo! I feel so relieved! I can finally take these Depends off and step away from the computer. Let's party!
3. ...hours later... I'm going to make this for the doll, I'm going to make that for the doll. Got to buy this stuff here because it would make a perfect dress. Maybe I'll sculpt and cast head alternates while I'm waiting in case I want to change things up some times... hmmm... can I handmake wigs on my own?
4. 3 days after the initial order I'm going stir crazy because I want my stuff NOW! Gaaaah! Why is there no time forwarding magic? *whines to people on message board about it, and they feel my pain, but most of them are interested in other kinds of dolls, not bjds).
5. Eventually join other more active doll forum because I've become totally manic and have to talk about it non-stop for a while!
6. Get convinced to buy yet ANOTHER doll while I'm wainting for the other 3 lol At this point I also realize that I SHOULD be getting back to work and stop playing, which leads to shopping, which leads to debt... but I don't wanna work! I'm not feeling it.
7. I have scared other members of the new boards and the old one away with my rampant posting and they are now deadzones where I talk to myself about how sad, bored and lonely I am waiting for my dollies T_T
8. I'm sitting on the beach of a deserted island talking to my half deflated volleyball friend Wilson.
I'm sure everyone's noticed by now... I'm a reaaaally obssessive person. I usually only obsess over one thing at a time, but sometimes more. Right now it's the darned dolls! I can't seem to shift my obsession back to work again.